Wednesday 28 February 2018

A Mother Says A Daycare Center Waxed Her Daughter's Eyebrows

A Mother Says A Daycare Center Waxed Her Daughter's Eyebrows

“I didn’t take my daughter there for them to alter the way she looks because she is absolutely beautiful the way she is.”

One mom says a Washington state daycare center waxed her 2-year-old daughter's eyebrows without permission.

One mom says a Washington state daycare center waxed her 2-year-old daughter's eyebrows without permission.

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Alyssa Salgado's story has been shared over 24-thousand times on Facebook. She told BuzzFeed, "I was mad and very upset. I was also hurt. It was a mix of different emotions. It made me feel as though I failed to protect my daughter because I wasn't there. What if she she was calling out for me hurting and crying?"

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When Salgado picked up her daughter Lilayiah from daycare earlier this month, she said she noticed a "red mark in between her eyebrows." At first, she thought it was a scratch, but then she realized her toddler's eyebrows had been waxed.

When Salgado picked up her daughter Lilayiah from daycare earlier this month, she said she noticed a "red mark in between her eyebrows." At first, she thought it was a scratch, but then she realized her toddler's eyebrows had been waxed.

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The below photo is of Lilayiah before her mother said the incident occurred. "I trusted them to care for my daughter in a proper way. I didn't take my daughter there for them to alter the way she looks because she is absolutely beautiful the way she is."

The below photo is of Lilayiah before her mother said the incident occurred. "I trusted them to care for my daughter in a proper way. I didn't take my daughter there for them to alter the way she looks because she is absolutely beautiful the way she is."

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Salgado said she is giving a voice to her daughter who doesn't have one yet. "They had no right to hurt her the way they did."

Salgado said she is giving a voice to her daughter who doesn't have one yet. "They had no right to hurt her the way they did."

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Salgado also noticed that Lilayiah's arm had been scratched.

Salgado also noticed that Lilayiah's arm had been scratched.

Salgado said, "The scratches weren't there before I dropped her off."

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The daycare center – located at Columbia Basin College – is run by the Boys and Girls Club of Benton and Franklin Counties. The college issued the following statement on Facebook:

The daycare center – located at Columbia Basin College – is run by the Boys and Girls Club of Benton and Franklin Counties. The college issued the following statement on Facebook:

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24 Documentaries That'll Give You A Whole New Perspective

24 Documentaries That'll Give You A Whole New Perspective

“Are you still there?” — Netflix, this weekend

Abstract: The Art of Design (2017- Present)

Abstract: The Art of Design (2017- Present)

"Abstract: The Art of Design gave me the push I needed to pursue my dream of working in design. After watching this series, I decided to apply for a design internship. It's not a big deal, but it means a lot to me. I've watched the documentary at least four times and it just keeps inspiring me more and more." —s46b39a4b5

Stream it on Netflix.

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What the Health (2017)

What the Health (2017)

"What the Health made me reconsider my eating habits. Since watching it, I eat a loooot more vegan meals." —lemkii

Stream it on Netflix.

A.U.M. Films & Media

The Hunting Ground (2015)

The Hunting Ground (2015)

"The Hunting Ground is about sexual assault on college campuses. It is SICKENING that these schools covered up and ignored the victims. Especially in the wake of the #MeToo movement, we're in dire need a change here in the US. I believe this documentary should be shown on all campuses as part of that reform." —brookeb624

Stream it on Netflix.

Netflix

13th (2016)

13th (2016)

"13th about abolishing slavery blew me away. Director Ava DuVernay does an outstanding job at showing the direct link between slavery, segregation, and mass incarceration of the black population of the United States. It’s utterly heartbreaking, but so important to watch." —karenc48e110efb

Stream it on Netflix.

Netflix

Babies (2010)

Babies (2010)

"Babies follows the first year of life of four infants from different parts of the world. At the time of its release, I was volunteering with the Peace Corps in Mongolia. It was eye-opening to compare American children's lives to those growing up in Mongolia, and even more amazing to be able to have a dialogue about it with Mongolian natives." —christinas4b13bd5fc

Stream it on Netflix.

Netflix

Blackfish (2013)

Blackfish (2013)

"Because of Blackfish, I will never look at SeaWorld, aquariums, or zoos the same way. It really opened my eyes on how amazing killer whales are, and how people are willing to sweep deaths under the rug just to make money off of wild animals." —KJV

Stream it on Netflix.

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Stuck (2013)

Stuck (2013)

"Stuck follows the adoption journeys of several orphans. It 100% convinced me that I want to adopt a child one day. Blood doesn't make family, love does." —jbrown378

Available to rent on Amazon for $3.99.

Globox Media

Forks Over Knives (2011)

Forks Over Knives (2011)

"Forks Over Knives turned me into a vegetarian. I haven't had meat in over a year now, and I feel great!" —degarmo

Available on Amazon for $3.99.

Monica Beach Media

Chasing Coral (2017)

Chasing Coral (2017)

"Chasing Coral made me change my major in school. I now study Atmospheric and Oceanic Science at the University of Colorado Boulder. I plan on becoming a climate scientist to do what I can to try and preserve our air and oceans." —jordans4bf42d485

Stream it on Netflix.

Netflix

Tapped (2009)

Tapped (2009)

"I watched Tapped six years ago and have boycotted water bottles ever since!" —monniegirl9

Stream it on YouTube.

Atlas Films

Common Threads (1989)

Common Threads (1989)

"Common Threads: Stories From the Quilt is about the ‘80s AIDS crisis in America. It tells the stories of several families affected by AIDS, and explains the AIDS quilt that was laid out on the Washington Mall. Common Threads gave me a greater appreciation for the Centers for Disease Control and spurred my anger at the government for their impotent response to the crisis. It's also one of the reasons I’m planning on studying about AIDS epidemic in grad school." —annalee10

Stream it here.

HBO

The Business of Being Born (2008)

The Business of Being Born (2008)

"The Business of Being Born made me decide to have a midwife when it came time to start my family. In the end, I was extremely happy with my birthing process. No medicine or interventions whatsoever. Not to mention I got to eat and drink during my 14-hour labor!" —alliem43afb4e3e

Available to rent on Vudu for $2.99.

Barranca Productions

Trophy Kids (2013)

Trophy Kids (2013)

"Trophy Kids changed the way I think about parenting young athletes. It poses the question, 'Do we want what's best for our kids? Or do we just want our kids to be the best?'" —gabbyg478b871df

Available to rent on Amazon for $3.99.

Bad Larry

A Place at the Table (2012)

A Place at the Table (2012)

"A Place at the Table opened my eyes to just how many food deserts there are in this country. Something needs to change in the way people get their food."
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Available to rent on Amazon for $3.99.

Participant Media

Poverty, Inc. (2014)

Poverty, Inc. (2014)

"Poverty, Inc. really forced me to look beyond 'donating to a good cause.' When you peel back that veneer, it becomes increasingly clear that not all charities strive to make a longterm impact. It taught me to do my research and only invest in sustainable organizations." —a4ffc516b2

Stream it on Netflix.

Netflix

Audrie & Daisy (2016)

Audrie & Daisy (2016)

"Audrie & Daisy was a life-changer for me. As a suicide prevention advocate, educator, and mom, it called to me on every level. Our children and our world need us to change. Life hurts but there is strength in survival." —k416097983

Stream it on Netflix.

Netflix

The Cove (2009)

The Cove (2009)

"I watched The Cove — a documentary about dolphin hunting in Taiji, Japan — when I was in 13 and was so horrified that I wrote a letter to the embassy of Japan asking them to stop dolphin hunting. The Japanese ambassador wrote me a letter back, signing it and everything. (My mom freaked out when that letter came and to this day thinks I’m on some kind of watch list.) —victoriag4f67964da

Stream it on Hulu.

Participant Media

Religulous (2008)

Religulous (2008)

"I went from a cautious agnostic to a full blown atheist after watching Bill Maher’s Religulous. I watch it every Christmas." —michellesk

Available to rent on Amazon for $3.99.

Lionsgate

How to Die in Oregon (2011)

How to Die in Oregon (2011)

How to Die in Oregon is about terminally ill people wanting to end their lives through physician-assisted suicide. It will alter you at a fundamental level and make you ask yourself some hard questions." —victoriah46ba3e549

Available to rent on Amazon for $3.99.

Clearcut Productions

Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things (2015)

Minimalism: A Documentary About the Important Things (2015)

"Minimalism is about categorizing your possessions and figuring out what makes you happiest. If the possession doesn’t bring you joy, you get rid of it! After watching it, I went on a huge purge in my room and got rid of three or four boxes of useless things. I live a much more clutter-free life now!" —daynak3

Stream it on Netflix.

Catalyst

180° South (2010)

180° South (2010)

"I watched 180° South before I took off on a 18-month trip around the world. It helped me get through the hard times of travel (like getting bed bugs, running out of money, getting purses stolen, etc.) It also introduced me to the importance of conservation and keeping our wild places wild, something I'm still actively involved in largely due to this documentary." —alyssap10

Stream it on Netflix.

Magnolia Pictures

The True Cost (2015)

The True Cost (2015)

"The True Cost really got me to start being more conscious of where my clothes came from. It looks at everything from sweatshops to the cotton fields the materials come from, along with the environmental impact. Since I've seen it, I've made a real effort to purchase more fair trade items (which have turned out to usually be higher quality and last longer anyway!)" —yunotadog

Stream it on Netflix.

Life Is My Movie Entertainment

Cave of Forgotten Dreams (2010)

Cave of Forgotten Dreams (2010)

"Cave of Forgotten Dreams, directed and narrated by the acclaimed Werner Herzog. This documentary beautifully and precisely conveys the concept of immense time within the Chauvet caves in France. You begin to understand the lives of prehistoric mankind, their visions, and the animals they interacted with way back when. My mind was blown." —athorup1

Stream it on Netflix.

The History Channel

Life (2009)

Life (2009)

"The docu-series Life, narrated by David Attenborough, made me feel less like the world is small and more like there are beautiful and amazing things to be seen and discovered." —maceybug3162

Stream it on Netflix.

BBC

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10 Things I Wish I'd Known Before I Cut Meat Out Of My Diet

10 Things I Wish I'd Known Before I Cut Meat Out Of My Diet

It’s totally doable — but there are a lot of ways to make the change easier.

Hi! I'm Emily, and I've been a pescatarian for more than three years.

Hi! I'm Emily, and I've been a pescatarian for more than three years.

I've experimented with vegetarianism and veganism as well, but neither of those have completely stuck (yet). Take it from me, though: cutting meat out of your diet is totally doable, but there are a lot of ways to make the change a little easier. Here are 10 things I've learned in the past few years, and wish I had known from the start.

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Instead of trying to go from carnivore to vegan in one fell swoop, ease your way in.

Instead of trying to go from carnivore to vegan in one fell swoop, ease your way in.

Take it slow! Maybe start by eating one meal every day that doesn't have meat in it. Or only eat meat if you're going out to eat. Or try out meatless Mondays. It'll be easier for you to figure out what fills you up when the cravings aren't as intense.

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Try out a few meat substitutes to keep the cravings at bay.

Let's be very clear: meat substitutes are really freakin' good these days. As in, diehard carnivores have probably even tried a veggie burger they actually like. And there are so many options: soy chorizo, seitan bacon, black bean burgers, jackfruit barbecue chicken, the list goes on and on. As meatless lifestyles have gone mainstream, companies have gotten way more creative with their recipes and products. You don't have to like tofu to get your protein anymore.

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Know how you're going to supplement your nutrition when meat is out of the picture.

Know how you're going to supplement your nutrition when meat is out of the picture.

Everyone always made it seem like I needed meat to get enough protein or that I would have to eat a ton of tofu (I, to this day, still can't stand tofu.) Once I did my research, I realized how untrue that was. At first, meal planning is going to be confusing and your nutrition intake will probably dip while you're re-strategizing. But once you get the hang of it you won't even think about it.

Get a few cheat sheets here and learn more specifics about nutrition here.

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Learn how to cook vegetables really well so you aren't overcompensating by eating a lot of refined carbs and dairy.

Learn how to cook vegetables really well so you aren't overcompensating by eating a lot of refined carbs and dairy.

This is going to sound weird, but the more I lost my taste for meat, the more I gained it for vegetables. I think that's mostly because I learned how to cook them the right way. You remember when everyone hated Brussels sprouts and now everyone loves them? That's because no one was cooking them the right way. (If you still aren't A Believer, you will be after you try this recipe — because wow.) Even if you quit this whole thing in a month, you'll at least learn more about cooking vegetables and incorporating them into your meals, and that's a good thing.

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Do this the way you want to do this, not the way someone's telling you you have to do it.

My friends still joke about that one time I had a bite of a pork bun. But I actually don't understand why having a bite of meat means my Veg card is revoked. I'm not allergic to it, I'm making a lifestyle choice. If you want to eat meat at special occasions or you only want to be a vegan when you're at home or you are just staring at your friend's bucket of fried chicken, that's fine! Be a sometimes-vegetarian! Do it the way it works for you — not the way that other people think you should do it. Do your best to not give a shit what people say about you because they will always find something else to criticize. You do you, honey.

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Don't feel like you have to justify your decision to anyone — not even yourself.

Not everyone is going to be supportive of this change. You're gonna hear a lot of "I could never cut meat out of my diet, I just love hamburgers too much" or "So, like, are you doing it to lose weight or..?" Whatever your reason, it's a good one and if you don't want to talk about it, just tell them you're trying something new.

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Better yet, just don't talk about it at all.

Discussing food and diets is often going to be an uncomfortable or charged subject in which someone feels self-conscious, defensive, judged, or even just annoyed. This is good for you, too: if you end up breaking and ordering a hamburger when you're drunk or something, you won't feel embarrassed because no one even knows you're trying to cut meat out anyways!

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Now, if a friend asks you for honest advice, that's a totally different story.

Now, if a friend asks you for honest advice, that's a totally different story.

Tell them about your experience, send them the recipes you love, and tell them about your favorite veggie burger.

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Can You Bake A Macaron?

Can You Bake A Macaron?

Do you have what it takes to make it through the recipe for these deceptively tricky little cookies?

These are chocolate macarons. Look pretty simple, right? We'll see if you have what it takes to make it through the recipe for these deceptively tricky little cookies.

These are chocolate macarons. Look pretty simple, right? We'll see if you have what it takes to make it through the recipe for these deceptively tricky little cookies.

Delicious brown colored macaroons, isolated on white background. Studio isolated chocolate macaroon candy with chocolate pieces.

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17 Dog Owners Who Are Extra And Don't Care Who Knows It

17 Dog Owners Who Are Extra And Don't Care Who Knows It

A breed reveal party? Count me in.

These dog parents threw a "breed reveal party" when they got their pup's DNA test back.

These dog parents threw a "breed reveal party" when they got their pup's DNA test back.

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The owners of these two doggos had a lagoon built in their pool so they could all cool off together!

The owners of these two doggos had a lagoon built in their pool so they could all cool off together!

"They each have a plastic Adirondack chair and an umbrella for them to lounge under during the dog days of summer. Clearly one of them enjoys it more than the other." —chacojones

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This dog owner had a house built for Charlie and decked it out at Christmas time.

This dog owner had a house built for Charlie and decked it out at Christmas time.

"I had my dad make my dog, Charlie, a house to put inside my house. And I got some foam and sewed together a Dalmatian-patterned dog bed to fit in there." —rachiec36

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And these two dogs got dressed up for their owner's "I dos" — wedding colors and all!

And these two dogs got dressed up for their owner's "I dos" — wedding colors and all!

"My mom made my dogs a matching wedding dress and tuxedo when we got married. The wedding dress came complete with a veil and a garter."—hungryotter

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But how about this pet parent who drove the birthday girl around town with the windows down and "Who Let the Dogs Out?" turned up!

But how about this pet parent who drove the birthday girl around town with the windows down and "Who Let the Dogs Out?" turned up!

"I drove her around town just so people could appreciate her." —emmam41989cb27

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Because Gertie and Gracie kept taking over the bed, their mom bought them their very own couch.

Because Gertie and Gracie kept taking over the bed, their mom bought them their very own couch.

"It's not a cheap couch either!" —nadupasquier

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Lucy here has a whole corner dedicated to her.

Lucy here has a whole corner dedicated to her.

"Lucy has her own corner in our tiny 1-bedroom apartment, featuring portraits of her and her biological mom painted by my fiancé." —mackles

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And It's unclear whether this is the dog's room or a human's room — but either way, this dog is loved!

And It's unclear whether this is the dog's room or a human's room — but either way, this dog is loved!

"Need I say more? Lol!" —elizabetha4ec911d7e

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You know how some people share chalkboard updates about their baby? Well Jax's parents basically did the furbaby version of this.

You know how some people share chalkboard updates about their baby? Well Jax's parents basically did the furbaby version of this.

"This is Jax’s adoptiversary board! We adopted him so we don’t know his birthday, so we celebrate his “gotcha” day!"—meghanh17

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These pup parents bought matching pajamas for the whole family.

These pup parents bought matching pajamas for the whole family.

"My dog didn’t want to take them off" —ivyrla

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And speaking of pajamas, Daisy's face is all over this pair!

And speaking of pajamas, Daisy's face is all over this pair!

"Can you tell I love my Daisy?" —georgia2018

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This group costume has more dogs than humans in it.

This group costume has more dogs than humans in it.

"Velma, Daphne, Shaggy, Scooby, and the Mystery Machine!" —Elizabeth Hernandez

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Maternity shoot? How 'bout a "pupternity" one?

Maternity shoot? How 'bout a "pupternity" one?

"We had 'pupternity' photos when my dog got my sister’s dog pregnant." —kelseyh4d476c4d5

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And finally, this dog owner literally had their dogs painted as Marie Antoinette and Napoleon!!!

And finally, this dog owner literally had their dogs painted as Marie Antoinette and Napoleon!!!

"They hang in my living room." —tke55el

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